Wednesday, June 23, 2021

Hospice

 This is Cindy 

taking a dictation from Dave...

This is a hard blog to post

Dying is not easy

But I want to be transparent in dying

as I was hoping to be in living.

We made it home to Washington

After a wonderful time with Jonathan

but a difficult time

We flew home yesterday

making it through the check out counter

where they weren't going to let us board

because we didn't have a back up battery 

to the oxygen concentrator

which we were not told about.

Once on the plane

the Alaska flight attendants were wonderful

in providing extra oxygen when needed

As were our fellow passengers.

The descent was rough

But made it through with the extra oxygen.

Our son Jonathan went with us 

helping us along the way

We couldn't have done it without him.

Our Friendster Melissa picked us up at the airport

and brought us home.

We are so thankful for so many friends who have offered

food, transportation and support

all along the way.

Thank you

Today is the day you hope would never come

Entering into Hospice

Makes dying a reality

But I want the reality of dying to be as transparent

as the fight for living

Dying is leaving loved ones

that you care so much about

Going through drawn out pain

that you wish you didn't have to

But in no way do I want it to diminish

the reality of the hope I have in Jesus

Of entering into eternity with Him

That death is not victorious

I have a rock solid hope in Jesus

Not just wishful thinking because

I am dying 

but rooted in years of rock solid evidence

that He is who He says He is 

and He will do what He says He will do

This might be my last blog

but Cindy will finish it for me.

It truly is day by day

Only God knows.

Dave



26 comments:

  1. You are so, so loved and cherished, Dave. You have been a father to me and to so many others. My heart is breaking and I am clinging to Jesus that he is holding you close to his bossom as a parent cradling their child, and he will rock you into eternity. You are the best boss, friend, and pastor I have ever had.

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  2. I have followed your journey. I have prayed. I have been blessed by your blog. You have lived well! You have loved often. You are strong. Your testimony is clear. Praising God for you and Cindy. In Christ, Stacy

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  3. All of our prayers are with you. Thank you for resting in Jesus and showing us compassion, even in the hardest fights, by pointing us to the Savior. Love, Chanel (Caulfield) Riggle

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  4. Psalms 116:15
    You are "precious" to Him!

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  5. Dave,

    I can only imagine the strength Cindy has writing this update for you. You have been an amazing inspiration and a father to so many of who will leave big shoes to fill. We love you and will forever live in our hearts.

    So will it be with the resurrection of the dead. The body that is sown is perishable, it is raised imperishable; it is sown in dishonor, it is raised in glory; it is sown in weakness, it is raised in power; and it is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body.

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  6. We are thankful, beyond words and with FULL hearts for you, and the ways you have always pointed our lives towards Jesus. We love you, and will pray for peace and rest for you, and for Jesus to be very near to your family. What a glorious hope we have, to know that death is only a brief passing, before we witness with new eyes our Savior!

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  7. We are praying for you all! You are well-loved and have been a good and faithful follower of Jesus. It is no surprise that he is calling you home, but we all wish we had one more day, week, month, year. But you have taught us God’s Word and His precepts. You have earned many jewels in your crown - not because of the riches but because your overwhelming love for the Lord was poured out to many. We pray you have peace and minimal pain. We pray you realize how deeply you are loved. We pray for that sweet moment when Jesus takes you into his arms, holds you tight, and tells you “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” We will see you soon!
    Love, Ru and Steve

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  8. You are such a blessing to so many. God is calling you now to a life pain free and happiness. I have learned so much from you in a few short years but will continue praying for you and Cindy. This is very difficult to hear but please know how much you are loved!!
    🙏🏼💔🙏🏼

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  9. God bless you my friend as you enter into glory. Your life mission has been glorious, honest and real. Hug Jesus for me. Your legacy will go on. You are a treasure, as is your wife, Cindy.

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  10. What a hard one. We love you and will be with you sooner or later.

    Love, Jim & Anna

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  11. Much love to you, Cindy, and the kids. Thank you Dave for living a real life for me to see and follow. I know it wasn't perfect, but it didn't need to be. I, like so many others, have "learned and received and heard and seen in (you)" (Philippians 4:9) and we will practice these things so that the same God of peace will be with us in our time here.
    Daniel and I will continue our friendship and I will continue to do what I can to support and strengthen the work of The Coffee Oasis and The Refuge.
    I have always appreciated and respected you. What your family has given in order to serve so many continues to shape, challenge, and influence who I am and how I seek to influence others. You've been one of my real Bible Heroes:):) Thank you.
    Chris Swan

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  12. Dave - what a amazing journey you have been on as I have been honored to follow you on this blog. I also vividly remember you pouring out your heart & vision of dreams to have a deeper mission with the Basque in their country. God heard you & I know he will see it through in his power. As I know he is with you & your wife now. What a Man of God you have been on this earth! Godspeed! Love ya - Derrin Doty

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  13. Thank you for your transparency. You have so blessed hundreds or thousands of individuals, but you have blessed and been an amazing witness to your larger community. You have been a man of God and integrity. Thank you for rising above the smallness of people and being the example of Christ for so many. Much love to you and Cindy and your family.

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  14. I have followed you Dave on your journey with cancer in the past two years and I am speechless of what to say here. I feel sad for your family as they will miss you so much and to take farewell of you but I also feel Joy for you as you enter into another " Place" with Jesus and all your quelstions will be answered and you will find Peace. Iam thankful for what I learned from you when I attended Refuge church; you really gave me that sparkle of light to start to understand more deeply about the bible and Jesus and I always left your sermons fullfilled and hopefull, something I had not experienced in other churches I have attended. Again, Thank you! You will be SO very missed by So so many. Blessings to you and your family and Dear friends. 🙏🌹🌠🌈✝💜Anna

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  15. we love you Dave cindy and your family ❤️❤️ It has hurt to watch you on this journey😭We know that our hope is in Christ !! You have lived and LOVED soo well and been a blessing beyond words to soo many people !!!Ellianna prayed for you yesterday again!! we are praying for y’all each step .. we love you

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  16. Thank you for trusting Jesus so literally and fully with ever single moment of your life Dave. Prayer for you, Cindy and your entire family.

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  17. This is a hard path to go through! Praying for you Dave and your family!! May the peace and comfort from the Lord filled your hearts!!

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  18. I am sad, of course, but I’m also glad you're going to have comfort and peace at hospice. You are very much loved. Prayers to you and your family. You've done so much for me with counsel and as a pastor, and friend. xx Jen Stroup

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  20. Chloe and I have been praying for you and will not stop. We know your journey is hard, but we are faithful God has you and you are not at an end! The time we shared together means so much to me and your love and guidance will never be forgotten. Love you Brother. Jon Stroup

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  21. Dave, it brings me so much sorrow to hear the difficult journey you are going through. You have touched so many lives, including mine when you were pastoring the Refuge. I hope that you are proud and confident--of what you've accomplished and will accomplish, who you are, and how Christ is pleased with you--because you deserve to be. Josiah Wai

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  22. Go with God, Dave. You have fought the good fight and have impacted so many lives. You will be so very missed.

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  23. Dave, I thank the Lord for you. You were an encouragement and example of godliness before I believed in Jesus. I'm sure you and your dad and family had quite a time tolerating us Hageman brothers, but finally the Lord prevailed upon us. Thank you for being a friend, a pastor, a missionary, compassionate to the youth, and your contagious smile and laughter! We'll all rejoice with you very soon in glorious Heaven. Thank you for loving Jesus and loving me. Cory

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  24. You are an amazing man of God Dave and yours and Cindy’s legacy for youth will be carried on my Daniel and others that share your love of Jesus Christ and the love he has for everyone including our youth! God bless you and keep you, may he shine his face upon you and give you peace. Dave, I am blessed to have met you and Cindy. My prayers are with you and your family. 💜🙏🏻

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  25. You befriended Gary, Cory and me before we were saved. Then after salvation, you contributed to my growth in Christ as I watched your life. You have been a faithful friend and an unwavering example and inspiration even before marrying Cindy. Praise the Lord for a life well lived. I'm looking forward to spending more time with you in heaven. Love, Bruce and Becky

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  26. Dave,
    We don't know you like many of the MCC folks do, but we have been blessed by your ministry presentations and your faithful leadership at Coffee O. You, your wife, and your family are in our prayers as you go to meet our Saviour. Well done, well done.

    John & Kitty Miller

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